My name is Brenda. I am 43 years old, a mother of
two and until recently a Development Manager for a well known
Financial Company based in Bradford. Over the past two years I have been
through the great loss of my husband through horrific circumstances and
have also suffered bereavement in close succession of my mother, father and
cousin. I thought I could just cope and get on with things in life, but my world
became dark, unrewarding and chaotic.
I expected myself to be “Super Mum”, to juggle my
children, home and career-life without much thought to my mental and
emotional wellbeing. I had gone to counselling sessions with
psychiatrists and personal counsellors, but none had seemed to help me slow
down and digest what had happened to me. I felt as if I was on autopilot and
running out of fuel very quickly. I was going through all this turmoil, and
afraid that at any time my world would come crashing down around me.
I felt that if I didn't do something immediately, I would be heading for a
complete breakdown.
Gary Blonder was recommended to me by a
colleague, and my first session was all about my life and what I felt the
problem was that brought me to this point. For the first time in
years, I felt I could fully express how I was feeling about what had taken
place in my life. Gary quickly put me at ease and reassured me that I was
coping very well with my situation. By developing new skills with Gary's
help, I grew in strength and confidence, and learned how to cope
better with difficult issues and
situations.
I had one session per week over five weeks, and
each session lasted around an hour. We worked on positive
thinking, anger management, self-worth, imagination, and relaxation. I
can honestly say that I saw progress in myself after the first meeting and
then throughout the five weeks. I became more confident, less angry and had
a better outlook on my life.
I have now changed my career after wanting to leave
for three years and never having the guts to do it before. With Gary's help I am
now heading in a direction that has always appealed to me (Social
Worker), have secured a job, and start in September 2010. What I would say
to anyone wanting to try Hypnotherapy with Gary Blonder for whatever reasons and
are unsure about it is to not let fear, self-doubting or a troubled mind stop
you! You will learn to be your true self!
Thanks to Gary, I have accomplished very real
positive results in my life. I gained a truly
rewarding outcome after every session and I have no doubt that he
will do the same for you!
BRENDA GORDON, Social Worker
I'd like to thank you for helping me
in my hypnotherapy sessions over the last month. It has helped me greatly
in regaining my confidence. I returned to work after time off with a
stress-related illness and found that people responded well to my new state of
mind. Confidence breeds confidence! You also helped me recognise which parts of
my early life were significant in my development and, even more importantly,
which were "threats". I now see things much more in proportion. Your coping
strategies have proved very practical and valuable and now I feel comfortable in
many social situations that seemed challenging in the past.
Progress has
been very good I'm very pleased to report. The "Self worth" process you taught
me is proving to be excellent, to the point that my natural default setting is
on positive just about all of the time! The few occasions that 'negative'
thoughts have entered my head, I find I can catch them very early and then turn
them into positives very easily and quickly, something I take a lot of pleasure
doing.
Have found the CD to be very relaxing and I'm sure it has helped
me. I have found it difficult to listen to it every day, as a quiet hour is
often impossible to find, so I listen to it when I can. Also I think the trigger
words have helped. When my thoughts start, I say the words to myself and it
seems to put my mind on another, more positive track.
Thank you
very much for your help!
Kully Kaur, Employee at CAS
Bradford
I saw Gary Blonder a few weeks back as
I suffer a lot of flashbacks from my past and I felt isolated around my partner,
and I also felt as if I wasn't a good mother towards my son. He helped through
the whole process and he taught me how to love others around
me, and helped me free my mind through the process of it all. It's
brought me and my son closer more than ever and with my partner too. I would
recommend anybody out there to Gary Blonder as he is really good at what he
does. THANK YOU GARY XXX
Dawn Monaghan, Cashier
I had never experienced hypnotherapy before my session
with Gary, so I was curious about the possible results. I felt completely safe
with him, in “letting go” while he talked me into the trance. I decided to start
with a simple problem that has been around for many years – being relaxed and
confident when singing in public.
After just one session I couldn’t stop singing, and had
to ask Gary how to turn it off so that I could get some sleep at night! My voice
relaxed and sounded different and much better. So I am delighted with this, and
also the positive results for other issues that Gary has helped me
with.
Jenny Cooper, health coach,
Key Steps Coaching.
http://www.keystepscoaching.com
